Distance or separation whose fault is it!


Distance is not an automatic former but an effortless creator. So what do I mean by effortless creator here? Distance is created between the two where they don’t put valuable efforts to maintain their relationship asçcc a strong one. And even if after putting efforts there is a distance or separation whose fault is it?

1. Time
Not giving enough time to your partner may really end up in a confusing relationship. Lacking of love appears after a certain time period. No more comfort zone with each other and not being upto date with the details or happening can lead to a misleading relationship too.

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2. Misunderstanding
In case, your partner was trying to be sarcastic just to make you happy. But you took the whole incident in a wrong way and that really upsets your partner and make her believe you don’t understand her personality.

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3. Expectations
Yes! It is a most important part of the relationship. We have heard not to expect but coming to human tendency we can’t stop expecting from our loved ones. But in case, you are enable to fulfill this criteria then- Man! You are standing there in the danger zone.

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4. Explanations
Don’t ever create this mistake by asking an explanation directly especially from the females. Explanations are needed for those who don’t trust their better-half. The other person finds her trust and understanding questionable.

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5. Nagging in her work
I am not saying she is a perfect human but don’t interrupt in her work life. She is multitasking and believe me she can do it better than you do. It’s not her mistake if she thinks handling the ones she knows and taking care of everything and everyone is her duty. Respect her for what she is and what she do.

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6. Care for her emotions
When a man can have an irritating nature after a job hours then why can’t the female one? No, if you are thinking that I am talking about all men then I am not. I am talking about a possibility here. Even, she does equal part including job, family and friends. Getting emotional sometime is not an issue but what matters if you are there for her or not.

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7. Don’t handle her life
Nobody like to get control by someone else especially the independent ones. What are you talking about? In this era, where girls can stand on their own feet with their abilities and talents, do you even think they will like to get handle by someone? Especially when they can buy their own bread and run their family on their own.

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Yet, after all this she expects a person to love her beyond what she is. Taking care of her is not your duty but a responsibility which you carry with all your heart. She deserves a smiling and happy life. It is not her mistake to get afraid of future. Fear of broken promise has been her way all through life. If she sees her happiness in your happiness then you need to hold her strong. Doubts regarding the future is normal but through your present you need to help her build her trust in you.



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