What holds you back to love her more? Is it your concern that she will take you for granted or is it that you will end up getting hurt? Are you afraid that she won’t return it back to you? Things are in our hands but we think too much but know too little about our relationship.
Isn’t it true that we compare, imagine, and conclude everything on our own rather than waiting for the lifetime to let life take us in its own way? Things get critical because we want the situation to occur the way we want it to. Let me tell you that there are very few relationships that have couples who love each other equally. Mostly, one of them loves more than the other one. So, does that mean that the relationship is weak? No, not at all.
There are the times when one love more than the other but another time the relationship gets inverse too. It totally depends on time and situation. May be one is good in expressing his/her feelings but other one is not.
Don’t ever be afraid to reach out to your beloved one when they need you. Aggressiveness might end up hurting you but that does not mean they don’t care for you. Do we fall in love with the presumption of getting the perfect match for us? Most of us do and with the time, reality breaks us down. There are the stages of love which we all come across:
At the very beginning, we want to do so much for each other and also beyond our limits. We want to see them happy, fulfill their wishes, and handle them with a lot of care. But as time passes, we see that the level of our doing does not match with the other person and we start falling apart. Our ego starts coming in our way of love. We become egoistic and start ignoring our love capabilities.
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So, the question arises how should we deal with such situation?
As Vivekananda said, there was no wife like Sita and neither ever will be. We need to accept this fact that no wife will ever can give Agnipariksha like Sita.
